Where Are All the Great Guys? Find One Right Now!

So the new year has already begun and you’re thinking about that resolution you made a few months back – attracting and keeping a great guy in your life.

(1) Decide what you want and WRITE IT DOWN. This is crucial to your search. If trust is important to you, write that down. If finding a guy who is physically fit is important to you, write that down on your list. Keep going, writing down as many things that are important to you in a mate that you can think of. Once you’ve written down everything you’re looking for in a guy, you can begin to get a clearer picture of the man you are looking for and where you may be able to find that hottie!

(2) Check yourself! You’ve got to present a package worth wanting when you hit the dating scene. Make sure you are emotionally ready for a relationship and have room in your life for it. Make sure you are not still reeling over your last break-up and can bring a new guy into your life and focus on him wholeheartedly. If you need to lose weight, hit the gym. If you’ve been dying to highlight your hair, now’s the time to go for it. Get your heart and mind in shape to find that fabulous guy!

(3) Confidence is sexy. Are you sheepish and shy? That’s so yesterday! Today’s women are confident, independent and know what they want in life and in a life mate. Exude confidence and you’ll show perspective dates that you’re not only secure, but independent as well.

Need guidance? Try Women & Love: Finding True Love While Staying True to Yourself: The Eight Make-Or-Break Experiences in Women's Lives by Mira Kirshenbaum

Good luck!